I had a follow up visit with my surgeon today. He’s very happy with how I’m healing, but he cautioned me to continue to take it easy. No lifting anything heavier than 10 lbs for 6 more weeks, no vacuuming, no walking the dogs, nothing that would strain my stomach muscles. Doing so risks a hernia, which I do not want. It’s also the reason I need to continue wearing a stomach binder. However, I was able to switch out the uncomfortable compression bra with Velcro that sticks to everything for a regular sports bra. AND I got the last drain out, which is so freeing. I no longer have to choose my clothes based on what will stretch over a tube coming out of my hip. I’m grateful for that!

Unfortunately, some of the transferred fat is already turning hard on my left side, so we also discussed the next “revision” surgery, which would correct that and anything else that pops up. Since my doctor’s schedule fills fast, he said they would get it scheduled now for a few months out. While I know tweaking after the fact is standard for diep flap, the thought of another surgery is exhausting. I don’t even want to think about it.

I also don’t want to think about the fact that Patrick got sideswiped in the clinic parking garage after dropping me off at the door. He missed my whole appointment. Thankfully, no one was hurt and he can still drive his car. I guess I’m also thankful it wasn’t his fault; it’s just a bummer that his door is scratched and dented and will need to be fixed.