August 17, 2023

I had my follow up appointment this morning with my plastic surgeon, and I got the wound vac from my stomach as well as three of the four drains removed. I have one remaining in my left hip. The doctor is happy with the progress and of my healing. The incisions look good and the transferred skin is looking healthy. My left breast, which was my problem side all along, is feeling firmer already though. He says it could be some fat dying off or some possible bruising underneath, but it isn’t anything too concerning. He does want me to go to physical therapy soon as it might help with the tendon tightness that is still present.

He also confirmed that the pathology report stated there was some potential skin necrosis happening in my left breast prior to surgery. He said it was quite a mess, so I’m grateful I was finally able to get this done before I had no choice anymore. Now I’ll be wearing compression garments for a while and have a follow up appointment again in a week.

I’m also thankful that I got some visitors today. A couple of friends stopped by with lunch, and we sat outside for a little while and caught up.

Then some other friends stopped by before dinner, and we sat on the deck, too, since it was such a gorgeous day for being outside. They also brought me a gift which made me laugh. They know me well. Skulls and flowers! And coffee! 🤩 It was a good day.

August 16, 2023

My sister-in-law sent me a couple things to aid in my recovery.

Cooper’s toys are everywhere!

Patrick does not respond to the bell, but it’s funny to have. I’ll keep trying. The skull blanket is soft but a little lighter weight, so it will be nice as the weather warms up again. Plus, skulls and flowers? Yes! I’m thankful for her thoughtfulness.

August 15, 2023

Today’s activity list: I napped a couple of times. And walked up and down the stairs a couple of times. Watched a couple movies. Ate lunch outside. Checked the mail and sewed pockets on the inside of a linen jacket for my drains, so I don’t have to go to my next doctor’s appointment in a robe.

Although I’m getting pretty bored, I’m thankful for this time to recover and am glad I can move around better.

August 14, 2023

Good lord it has been a day. This morning Cooper, during a fit of puppy energy, took off towards the hallway and hit the wall on his way. He yelped loudly and then held up his paw, which dangled at a weird angle. I yelled, “oh my gosh, I think he broke his leg!” as he continued yelping in the hallway. Patrick scooped him up and he and my mom rushed him to the emergency vet. It was awful. The sound of him hitting the wall. His dangly paw. Ugh. I was a bit frantic waiting to hear, worrying about how we would take care of a puppy in a cast while I’m recuperating myself.

Then Patrick sent me this photo.

He probably sprained his shoulder but thankfully, his leg was not broken. The vet said it happens a lot with puppies. They get hurt, then limp for a while, but then are ok. What a relief. The vet suggested leash walking and pain meds.

Then, later after we got ourselves regrouped and relaxed, Cooper knocked over my mug of hot chocolate onto the living room carpet and all over my end table. He really tested us today, the little shit. So much for the anti-stress environment my doctor prescribed.

But I am thankful all is well at the end of the day. Hopefully the excitement tomorrow is outside of the house when our contractor comes back to finish our concrete work.

August 12, 2023

I have a love/hate relationship with Patrick’s recliner. I’m grateful I’m able to sleep in it well enough, but I’m already tired of being in it. Our sofa is too low and difficult to get out of, so it’s off limits for a while. I tried my office chair just so I could sit in the living room from a different location, but I wasn’t able to sit comfortably. The kitchen chairs are only comfortable long enough to eat a meal…so I end up back in the recliner. Unfortunately, I can’t bend enough to pull the lever to actually recline, which isn’t an issue during the day since I can sit comfortably using a footstool. But at night, I need to recline in order to sleep, so Patrick or Mom has to help me get settled. And then when I inevitably wake in the middle of the night to use the restroom, I have to wake one of them to help me out of it. Good thing for me, my mom’s a light sleeper.

I’m hoping after these initial first days I’ll be moving well enough that I can get comfortable in bed instead. I’ll need to sleep upright for a while, so I’ll have to prop myself up with a bunch of pillows. However, it’s my stomach that’s causing most of the concern since the incision is from hip to hip. It’s not going to be helping me sit up anytime soon, and I don’t want to do anything to stall the healing. So, I’m thankful for the recliner. My bed and main perch for now.

The wound vac covering my incision.

August 11, 2023

I’m thankful for another day of healing and walking a little better, for the help of my mom and Patrick, and for some sweet pick-me-up surprises from a good friend and flowers from my in-laws.

These cookies are too cute to eat!
#truth
They’re so cheerful!

August 10, 2023

I’m home! I was doing so well, they let me leave the hospital a day early. Of course the incisions still look horrible. There is no covering on my new breasts so the incisions are viewable. There’s a lot of bruising and swelling, but the blood flow to my new tissue has been strong, so the likelihood of them failing now is pretty slim. It’s hard to stand upright still, and walking is slow, but my pain is minimal—unless I need to cough. Then it’s miserable.

I got settled at home while the pups were outside, so my arrival was fairly uneventful, which was good. I still have 4 drains in my sides and a wound vac on my stomach. All items very interesting to a pup. The last thing I need is for one of them to jump on me. I think they missed me though. Once they came in and saw me and eventually settled down, they laid by my chair.

I’m thankful to be home—a big step in my recovery.

August 9, 2023

I thought my posts were uploading but I guess not. Whoops.

Today was better. I walked a bit. I showered which I was very grateful for. I am able to get in and out of a chair and the bed. And my nurses don’t need to check me every hour anymore so I’m hoping I get to sleep better. The doctors are talking about possibly discharging me tomorrow.

I’m grateful for all the friends and family who have checked in on me today. For Patrick who’s been driving back-and-forth. And that I’m feeling a little bit better each day.