November 24, 2021

It’s my birthday! It’s also one year since I had the biopsy that revealed my cancer. We hear all the time how life can change in an instant but it’s hard to grasp it until it actually happens to you. But here I am, less than a month after my last radiation treatment, celebrating my birthday again post cancer. Everything went sideways for a while, but now it’s back on track. A lot of people celebrate a second birthday when they’re cancer-free. Lucky for me I can celebrate it on the same day.

And today I got to celebrate by first having Christmas morning with Brianna and Noah. They opened the presents we got them and I opened birthday presents. Then we went to the apple orchard and an antique store and lunch before hanging out at home. Bri and Noah even decorated my outside chalkboard for me. It was a good day. I’m lucky and grateful.

November 23, 2021

Brianna and Noah made it here! I’m so thankful they made the drive safely. We spent the afternoon just catching up, playing games, and looking through old photos. Then they went to a movie with Bri’s dad while I ran a couple errands.

I’m also thankful for this awesome early birthday gift a friend dropped off today. Those socks make me laugh. And I love that the name of the wine is Grateful. Because I am. It’s been a good day.

November 22, 2021

My morning started with a 7 am meeting and went nonstop all day. I even logged in a bit after dinner to finish a couple of things. But I’m now off the rest of the week, so it’s all good. I’m so thankful for holidays that give us a reason to celebrate and rest a bit. I’m looking forward to this Thanksgiving week.

November 21, 2021

It was a busy day. I got some outside stuff done while it was a warm day. I got my peonies trimmed back and a few outside lights hung. I also got some cleaning and laundry done inside, but I still have more to do before my daughter and her husband come over this week. I’m excited and thankful to be able to see soon!

November 20, 2021

This wine and towel was part of the birthday present my friend gave me yesterday. I think this means I’m cool. Definitely, cool. And the wine was perfect after a day of Christmas shopping.

I realized as I was wrapping presents tonight trying to get things ready before Bree and Noah come next week that I went a little overboard this year. I guess I picked up things here and there for my kids without realizing it. I debated whether to wrap everything but decided I didn’t care. It’s been a long, tough year. And I miss my kids, so presents are in order.

I’m thankful again for the thoughtful gift from my friend, and I’m grateful I’m able to provide gifts for my kids. I hope the ones I got for them make them feel special, too.

November 19, 2021

It’s my mom’s birthday today! Whoop! She spent the day doing what most of us adults do, which is not a lot. She spent the day at home; went to a buffet and ate too much; then played cribbage with my sister and brother-in-law. It’s a good thing we celebrated at my house.

Actually we celebrated my birthday a bit early at our house. A friend came over and brought these yummy cupcakes and a present. We ate pizza and watched The Jungle Cruise before she realized we aren’t that exciting at our house either and left.

Too bad birthdays aren’t the thrilling adventure they are were when we were younger. But it’s ok. That’s just the way of it. I’m so thankful for my mom today. Her love and support mean everything. And I’m glad I got to see her last weekend and give her a gift that she seemed to legitimately like. Yay! I’m also thankful to have celebrated my birthday early with a good friend who is one of the most generous and giving people I know.

November 18, 2021

The picture is Emma’s car after someone hit her last weekend. She’s been worried because she couldn’t get answers from her insurance company and nothing seemed to be moving forward. Apparently there was question of fault because the girl who hit her wasn’t given a ticket at the scene and yet wouldn’t provide a statement to her insurance company either.

But late this afternoon she found out that the other driver’s insurance is covering all damages. She can finally figure out what her next steps are to getting either her car fixed (which is questionable if there is frame damage) or getting a different car. I’m thankful she has some questions answered, and I hope all goes well now towards a resolution. Fingers crossed.

November 16, 2021

What a long day. Is it still Monday? Is it already Wednesday? I never even left the house today—only stepped out on the deck briefly at lunchtime. But I’m thankful to have gotten stuff done at work. I’m slowly checking things off my to-do list.

I’m also thankful that my friend found out today she doesn’t need to go through radiation after all. Everything worked in her favor—the cancer was found so early, it was small, the lumpectomy was successful, and she’s on hormone therapy. Radiation wouldn’t necessarily change any future issues. I’m so happy for her! What a testament to early detection.

Speaking of radiation, I’m also grateful that my skin is really starting to look better. It’s now just light pink and barely peeling anymore. I haven’t had to take ibuprofen in the last couple days. Woohoo!

November 15, 2021

It’s my youngest daughter’s birthday today. I can’t believe she’s a legit grownup woman because I still see this little girl when I think of her. Look at that smile.

She’s always been such a joy to be around—happy, loving, and smart. She is also generous and has a real heart for other people. Even as a young kid, she would stand up for anyone she thought was being picked on or treated unfairly. As she got older, she continued to look out for her friends, becoming the one others could count on for sound advice and support.

She’s also always been very independent and strong in her convictions. I’m so proud of the lovely person she is and always has been. And she still has that beautiful smile.